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@whimformalenter to reply

felt, i feel like this too often. fwiw, i've realised that it's less of a communication skill issue and more of a confidence issue impairing my communication.

@plop · 2 repliesenter to reply

Not enough for my goal apparently! Which is to find a job in an english speaking setting. I've been ghosted by many recruiters. Orally, I don't project confidence, I stutter a lot and have difficulty finding my words at times. Saw textlog as an opportunity to work on it :)

@plopenter to reply

I am pretty sure confience is what is at work in my case. Did you try something specific to improve in that regard?

@whimformalenter to reply

[1/2] accepting that communication clarity is a spectrum where language skill isn't the only variable. it's influenced by dialect, accent, colloquialism usage, etc., & having to repeat myself to someone occasionally doesn't imply a skill issue at either end of the conversation

@whimformalenter to reply

[2/2] e.g, english is my first language, but my accent and pronounciation are wildly different from what western speakers are used to, so there's a happy medium of minimal adjustments i make in conversation with them, i'm okay with clearly conveying the essence of the discussion